NINE
TO FIVE DOGS
by Ann Smalley
For most of us, it's difficult to do two
things at once - pat one's head and rub one's stomach, for example, or
stand on one's head and whistle "Dixie". But while, with a little concentration
and practice, these tricks can be mastered, no one has yet figured out
how to be in two places at one time. In the 1980's, this is what dog owners
who work full time would probably like to be able to do more than anything
else. As more people work full time, more pet dogs are also becoming nine-to-fivers
- dogs that are left alone from 9:00 (or earlier) in the morning
to 5:00 (or later in the evening) every weekday and whose time with their
owners is limited to weekday evenings and weekends. Owners who love their
dogs and want the best for them find themselves struggling to fit it all
in: feeding, grooming, exercising, and just spending time together, strengthening
the bonds of companionship that are so rewarding and make owning a dog
such a joyous experience. Sometimes it seems as if it would be impossible
to do everything recommended by manuals, magazine articles, animal behaviorists,
and dog trainers to produce a happy, well-adjusted pet even if one devoted
twenty-four hours a day to it.
Where once a household may have had someone
at home all day, now it's likely that the house will be empty, except for
the dog, from early morning to evening. Although many dogs, fortunately,
can adjust to a life alone during the day, others may be lonely, bored,
or frustrated. They may turn, as a result, to destructive or undesirable
behavior: digging craters in the garden: barking incessantly; or chewing
up the new oriental rug. The dog's behavior , in such cases, creates an
unhappy owner who dreads unlocking the door each evening and viewing the
latest disaster but who isn't home enough to cope with the problem. Frustrated
by an apparently unsolvable dilemma, the owners may decide he cannot keep
the dog and give it up to a shelter.
Aside from problems such as barking, digging
and chewing, other problems may arise from the nine-to-five dog. The dog
may have housebreaking problems or be so full of energy by the time its
owner gets home that it's rambunctious and uncontrollable. It's not surprising
that such problems cause dog/owner relationships to sour.
Does this mean a person who works full
time should not own a dog? Not at all. It is possible to have a mutually
satisfying, rewarding relationship with
a nine-to-five dog. One way is to recognize
how the dog is going to behave and then arrange things so that its behavior
will not upset you.
Choosing the right dog can start you off
with an important advantage. Since your time with your dog will be limited,
don't choose a dog that will force you to spend that time doing things
you'd rather not. If you dislike grooming, for example, choose a pet with
a short coat that requires a minimum of care. If you dislike vacuuming
up after dogs that are heavy shedders, choose a dog that will have minimum
shedding.
Dogs should not be nine-to-five until they
are at least six months old. Puppies less that six months of age need to
be fed four times a day and have not yet developed the muscle strength
for urinary control They should not be left alone for extended periods.
If you are already working full time when you decide to get a dog, take
advantage of the opportunity to adopt an older dog from a shelter.
Some dogs need more exercise that others,
so only think about a high-energy breed if you can meet its needs. The
point is to choose a dog that has a good chance of fitting in with your
life-style from the start.
Training a nine-to-five dog is a must.
Dogs are happier and more relaxed when their behavior is directed rather
than left up to them. They can be very anxious if they feel that they must
make all the decisions. Training can strengthen the pet/owner bond and
help each understand the other better. Basic training can also improve
the quality of your time together. You will not be frustrated - and perhaps
angered - by your dog running away, not coming when called, or pulling
your arm out of its socket when walked on a leash.
Although your time together may be limited,
investing fifteen or twenty minutes, four or five days a week, will help
you get the most out of every minute you dog spend together. You may be
encouraged to take your dog out for a long, leisurely walk in the out for
a long, leisurely walk in the park or a run by the river if you know
it will be a pleasant experience.
One crucial element in a nine-to-five
dog/owner relationship is how the dog behaves when it is alone and how
the owner reacts to this behavior. "Eighty percent of the people who turn
dogs in at shelters are doing it because they didn't think things through
when they got the dog," says Phyllis Wright, HSUS vice president for companion
animals. "You cannot expect a dog to be able to do things you cannot do."
For example, it's unfair to expect every dog to be able to control its
habits of elimination all day. If you have a dog that cannot be confined
alone all day, you need to arrange things so that it's OK for the dog to
do what is has to do. A dog will have to relieve itself, is going to get
on any comfortable furniture it has access to, will chew on tasty textured
objects, whether its own chew toy or your shoe. But by simply controlling
the dog's environment you can both be happy.
You can confine a dog with a housebreaking
problem to a limited space during the day. Adjustable dog gates, available
from kennel supply companies, come in a wide range of sized and can be
used to shut off areas where you do not want the dog to go. Use a gate
constructed with small plastic stretch squares within a wooden frame, not
a "baby gate" style, so your dog cannot get its head stuck between the
slats. When your dog is left alone in a gated area, remove its collar.
Put down papers for it to use. Smaller dogs may be trained to use a shallow
pan or tray lined with newspapers or other absorbent material, such as
disposable diapers. "Dogproof" the space where the dog will live
during the day with the aim of preventing undesirable behavior. Shut up
the garbage, pick up your clothes and shoes, cover the couch with
sheets, take the expensive carpets out of the room- whatever it takes to
ensure that you will not be angry with the dog when you get home.
This does not mean shutting the dog in
a dark, cold basement or garage, however. Light, its bed or other comfortable
place to sleep, a window to watch the passing parade, favorite toys, a
radio left on, plenty of water, papers or a pan - all are necessary to
help the dog cope with your absence for hours every day.
It's a very unnatural for a dog to be alone.
Naturally pack animals, dogs miss company more acutely that do other pets,
such as cats. Having a pet that is so focused on you is a big responsibility,
for if you are not there when the dog expects you, it will be extremely
anxious and upset. Is there anyone else who can stop in during the day?
Perhaps a reliable teenager in the neighborhood would visit your dog after
school and take it on a walk or play games with it, giving your pet exercise
as well as company. Be sure your dog is equipped with a sturdy leather
collar and a lead with a strong bolt snap, and that its tags are up-to-date.
There are other ways to put more human
companionship into your dog's life, too. One way is to arrange your situation
and schedule so you can be with the dog as much as possible. Another alternative
is to put other people into your dog's life, since you can't be there full
time. Following are a few suggestions to help you start thinking creatively.
Tailor where you live and/or work so you
can go home on your lunch hour and walk the dog and spend a little time
with it. When Carol Grunewald, an editor at the HSUS, moved to Washington
DC, fro Connecticut, she purposely sought an apartment within walking distance
of HSUS headquarters so she could look in on her dog, Anya, during the
day.
Hire a dog-walking service to walk the
dog during the day. Your dog will get some exercise and it will enjoy the
company of other dogs if taken out in a group. Pet-sitter services may
also tailor a daily visit to meet your dog's needs - exercise, company
or practice on its obedience training.
Get another dog. Two dogs can keep each
other company, play together, and exercise each other. If you
have a secure dog kennel adjacent to the house, consider installing a dog
door for your dogs to use at their discretion. Giving your dog a variety
of environments and allowing it to choose where it wants to be will go
a long way toward alleviating boredom and consequent destruction that might
ensue as your dog seeks ways to pass the time.
Dog-sharing or dog-sitting, is another
option to explore. Perhaps someone in your neighborhood, apartment building
or condominium who is at home during the day would enjoy having your dog
for company,. Guy Hodge, HSUS director of data and information services,
leaves his dog, Eiseley, with his neighbor, who also has a dog, every day
while he travels into downtown Washington, Dc, to his job a HSUS headquarters.
Older people, shut-ins, mothers with young children - many people who are
at home during the day might enjoy some canine companionship and protection.
You could negotiate a fee for this service or barter other goods or services,
such as odd jobs around the house, yard work, trips to the grocery store,
house-sitting on vacations, or whatever is mutually agreeable. Post a card
or notice describing your offer at the neighborhood grocery store, the
community bulletin board or mail boxes, and at your veterinarian's office.
Dog-sharing can be an ideal solution to
a worrisome problem. But there's one catch, your dog has to be a desirable
companion, amenable and well-behaved, so that candidates for dog-sharing
will want it in their homes. This is one area where obedience training
will really pay off for everyone. An uncontrollable dog that jumps
up, barks, and will not obey simply commands is hardly an attractive companion
for you or anyone else! A nine-to-five dog, for its own benefit, needs
to be schooled in the basics. A well-behaved dog is easily included - and
welcomed - in any activities. An undisciplined dog, on the other hand,
will often be left at home, no matter how much its owners love it.
Do your dog a favor and teach it how to behave and mind its manners.
Join - or start - a nine-to-five dog-owners'
network through your dog's obedience training class. If you take a weekday
evening class, chances are most of the other participants are nine-to-five
dog owners, too. You can all benefit by exchanging tips, ideas, solutions
and resources.
Face the fact that you, as well as your
dog, may need to be flexible. Many dogs are full of energy in the mornings
after sleeping all night, and this vigor needs an outlet. Can you get up
a half hour earlier than usual and go jogging together or have
a play session before you go to work? Then your dog would be better prepared
to settle down when you leave the house.
The nine-to-five dog's role in its family's
life has changed dramatically. Instead of sharing its owner's daily routine,
a nine-to-five dog is a leisure-time activity - an activity that must be
planned. A dog isn't the same as a set of dumbbells. It cannot just be
taken down from the shelf for an hour or so for its owner's amusement and
then put back until wanted again. It's a living, feeling creature with
needs of its own. It needs company, it needs exercise, it needs companionship.
It may take a little ingenuity, but these needs can be met.
Having a nine-to-five dog takes flexibility,
adaptability, and above all, creativity. Traditional solutions to a dog-owning
problems may not work for the nine-to-five dog, but this doesn't mean they
are unsolvable. Approach them from a different angle and see what you can
come up with.
Reprinted from The Humane
Society News * Spring 1988
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